What most people need is motivation. But that can be hard to find in the familiar weight-loss mantras of "eat less" and "exercise more," especially when lingering holiday desserts beckon and chilly weather makes it easy to sit by the fireplace instead of strolling around the block. Here are 5 tips on keeping your resolutions.
"Behavior and habit changes are very difficult for many people. On the other hand success brings a lot of rewards," said G. Alan Marlatt, director of the University of Washington's Addictive Behaviors Research Center.
Another expert, Anne M. Fletcher, a Minnesota dietitian who has written books about formerly overweight people who lose weight and keep it off, says, "I wouldn't see any harm in trying [meal replacements] if it helps."
Perhaps most important, Fletcher says, is to make what she calls a shift in thinking, from the "diet mentality" to the "healthy eating mentality." For her books on weight control, she has interviewed hundreds of people who have lost weight and kept it off for years. And she found a common thread.
"At some point, they made a critical shift in thinking where they went away from the diet mentality, and realized they had to keep doing certain things [such as watching their portions] for the rest of their life," she says.
You won't undo ten years of bad habits in a month, so you these tips to help guide you on the right path.
1. Just make a few resolutions
In Marlatt's research, he has found that people who make more than three resolutions at a time tended to break more of these vows. Even so, he recommends pairing up resolutions that complement each other. For instance, if you decide to stop overeating, also pledge to start exercising. That way, you'll see the rewards and continue both resolutions.
2. Choose your resolutions wisely
"People either make resolutions to stop doing something, like quit smoking, or to start something new, like exercise," Marlatt told LiveScience. While both types are fine, people tend to fail more often with the "stop" resolutions. That's because if you vow to stop eating sweets and you have just one brownie, you've effectively broken the resolution. The key to getting back on the wagon is your reaction to a slip-up, Marlatt says.
3. Get back on the wagon
People who break a resolution and then blame themselves with, "This proves I have no willpower," are likely to give up. A more productive inner dialogue would say something like, "I had one cigarette but I've got to make sure I tell my friends that I'm quitting so this doesn't happen again," Marlatt said. "Try to be a little bit more accepting of the fact that you may make a mistake."
In fact, within the first year of vowing to abstain from cigarettes or drugs or alcohol, about 85 percent of these people will have at least one lapse. "The good news is if people keep trying, eventually they are more likely to be successful," Marlatt said.
4. Come up with a strategy
In addition to your initial motivation, it's good to have a path sketched out, Marlatt said. If you decide to start eating healthier foods and less junk, figure out a plan for how to tackle your food habits. For instance, you could find a support system of friends or an established group of like-minded individuals; or you might make sure to stock your fridge with only these good foods.
"The more you can do to figure out how you can do it the better," Marlatt said. "Where there's a will there's a way. You need to focus on the way through."
5. Keep a diary
Research has shown that people who keep track of their resolution changes do better at sticking to their pledges than others. The diary might include situations in which you found it difficult to get to the gym or avoid a cigarette, along with ways you could handle the situation in the future, Marlatt said.
and don't give up!