Parents and teachers need
to do more to help kids who stutter deal with any bullying
or teasing, according to a speech pathologist.
William Murphy of Purdue
University in West Lafayette, Indiana, reasons that
stuttering kids who are teased may find it even more
difficult to say what's on their mind, because their
hurt feelings are getting in the way.
Moreover, children who
stutter may have a harder time coping with bullying
itself, since they sometimes can't use words to respond
to jeers and jabs. "The children know what they want
to say, they just can't get it out quickly enough,"
said Tammy Flores of the National Stuttering Association.
Teasing may be particularly
hard on stuttering kids if they have any other qualities
that make them stand out, Flores noted. A kid who stutters
and also has glasses or freckles, for instance, faces
a "double whammy," she said.
An estimated 5 percent
of preschoolers and 1 percent of adults stutter. Although
most preschoolers outgrow the speech impediment, this
rarely happens once a child gets older.
In general, public schools
provide most of the help for children who stutter, Murphy
said in a statement. However, in many cases, public
schools' budgets are stretched tight, and they may not
be able to give kids all the help they need, he noted.
In Murphy's new book,
"Bullying and Teasing: Helping Children who Stutter,"
funded and published last month by the National Stuttering
Association, he provides tips for parents and teachers
on how to talk to children who stutter about bullying
from other children.
For parents, Murphy recommends:
--Bring up the topic
of bullying.
--Devise a plan for how
to handle bullying.
--Then, practice the
plan through role-playing.
--Remind children to
stay in a group of friends or close to a teacher or
other adult. "Teachers can stop something that's happening
right in front of them," Flores noted.
Murphy noted that in
general, it's pointless for parents to tell kids to
ignore a bully. "It's kind of hard to ignore someone
who's bullying you," Flores stated.
Fighting back rarely
works either, and may just worsen the situation, he
added.
For teachers, Murphy
suggests making stuttering a topic of classroom discussion,
and mentioning famous people who stuttered as children,
such as James Earl Jones and Winston Churchill.