Lovesickness can kill and should
be taken more seriously as a legitimate diagnosis, according
to health experts.
Frank Tallis, a clinical psychologist
in London, is among those calling for greater awareness
of the "illness" in a report in The Psychologist magazine.
He said many are "destabilised by falling
in love, or suffer on account of their love being unrequited"
and this could lead to a suicide attempt.
Few studies deal with the "specific
problem of lovesickness", he said.
Physical exhaustion
Prof Alex Gardner, a clinical psychologist
in Glasgow and a member of the British Psychological
Society, agreed that doctors needed to be more aware
of lovesickness as a possible diagnosis.
He said: "People can die from a broken
heart.
"You get into a state of despair and
hopelessness."
He said as a result of love, in some
people it could lead to an extreme state of physical
exhaustion.
In extreme cases lovesickness could
drive people to take their own life, he added.
Dr Tallis said that before the 18th
Century lovesickness had been accepted as a natural
state of mind for thousands of years.
He said in modern day terms the symptoms
can include mania, such as an elevated mood and inflated
self-esteem, or depression, revealing itself as tearfulness
and insomnia.
Aspects of obsessive compulsive disorder
can also be found in those experiencing lovesickness,
such as preoccupation and obsessively checking for text
messages and e-mails.