For youngsters who are physically and psychologically ready
for toilet training, summer may be an ideal time to begin,
according to a statement on the topic from the University
of Michigan Health System.
The reason why is simple. As the temperature climbs, most
children wear fewer layers of clothing, making it easier
for them to undress themselves to use the potty.
Parents embarking on the process of toilet training --
in any season -- should remember that the "best way to accomplish
it is with very tiny steps," Dr. Julie Lumeng, a developmental
and behavioral pediatrician at the University of Michigan
Health System in Ann Arbor stated.
Parents should realize that their child will not automatically
progress as quickly as they might wish from unfamiliarity
with a potty to using the toilet routinely, she explained.
In fact, parents should consider it a "big accomplishment"
just for their child to sit on the potty, she said.
Since every child is unique, there's no hard-and-fast answer
to the "million dollar question" -- when is a child ready
to begin toilet training? However, there are several signs
that may indicate a child's readiness for toilet training,
according to Lumeng.
One is that he or she is able to understand instructions.
Children should also be able to support their weight as
they crouch down to sit on the potty or stand up from sitting.
They should be able to put their clothes on and take them
off or pull them up and down, and their bodies must be developed
enough so that their bladder can hold larger amounts of
urine between trips to the potty.
Psychologically, children must be able to recognize when
they need to use the toilet, be willing to sit on the toilet
and should be uncomfortable in a wet diaper, Lumeng advised.
Another clue that a child is ready to begin potty training
is if he or she is able to stay dry overnight, as well as
the ability to communicate a need for a dry diaper, Lumeng
added.
Generally, children are ready to learn to use the toilet
between the ages of 18 months and 2.5 years, according to
1999 guidelines released by the American Academy of Pediatrics.
Most children are trained by 3 years old.
Yet those ages are not set in stone. Parents of 3 year
olds who are still struggling to train their children "shouldn't
feel bad about it," Lumeng said, adding that there is "no
medical reason that they have to be trained by then."
Toilet training typically lasts up to three months, but
can take as long as seven months, and mistakes during that
time are common.
The key to success, Lumeng said, is to "be consistent in
positive reinforcement."
If the whole process gets too frustrating, however, parents
should consider taking a month-long break before starting
again. This is particularly true when the child begins to
get more satisfaction in resisting his or her parent's wishes
than in receiving compliments for his or her potty successes
and other types of positive reinforcement, Lumeng said.