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Cyberspace
Bullies Plague Kids
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By Matthew Jones,
Reuters Health
LONDON (Reuters) - Sly and manipulative,
bullies who once plagued their victims in the school playground
are now causing grief with abusive text messages and vitriolic
Web sites.
Cyber-bullying has become so common
in this country it is estimated one in four youngsters is being
targeted via the Internet or mobile phones.
"It's a new twist on the old pattern
of bullying," said John Carr of the children's charity NCH, which
has studied the "silent" intimidation.
Carr said the most common form
of cyber-bullying--text messages to mobile phones--meant victims
can never escape the harassment.
"In the past, if bullies picked
on you at school or on the way home, at least when you got to
your bedroom there was some respite," Carr told Reuters.
With most youngsters now carrying
mobile phones, the bleep of a text alert heralds for some children
not a chatty message from a friend but the prospect of a frightening
threat.
"We're gonna kill you" and "Look
out! we're going to burn your house down," are just two examples
Carr has come across.
Liz Carnell, director of anti-bullying
charity Bullying Online--www.bullying.co.uk--said there have also
been cases of "hate Web Sites" set up against pupils and sometimes
teachers.
"We have succeeded in getting a
couple of these Web sites shut down. But it is worrying that they
are so easy to set up in the first place," she told Reuters.
FIGHTING BACK
Teachers are aware of the problem
but are often unable to stamp it out.
The silent nature of cyber-bullying
gives few visible signs that someone is being victimized.
"Most schools have a policy of
not allowing mobile phones to be switched on during lessons and
some have even banned phones from school grounds," said a spokeswoman
for the National Union of Teachers.
"But teachers are powerless to
fight bullying of whatever type outside of the school."
Carr said a third of cyber-victims
don't tell anyone what is happening and of those that do tell,
it is often a school friend rather than parents or the police.
His advice is not to suffer in
silence.
"Tell the mobile phone companies,
try and get your number changed and tell the police," he said.
Carnell warned that youngsters
should be wary about giving out their email address or mobile
phone number.
"But sadly a lot of phone bullying
is when friends fall out," she said, adding that teenage girls
were the most common instigators and recipients of text bullying.
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