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How to Start the School Year Right
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By Gary Gately, HealthDay
As millions of children return to the
classroom after the long summer break, parents need to do their
own homework to help ensure their kids' health, safety and success.
From getting enough sleep to getting
the necessary vaccinations, from backpack safety to bus safety,
from developing good homework habits to coping with bullies, back
to school means much more than new clothes and supplies.
Some jitters are to be expected,
especially if it's a new school. But parents should be mindful
of warning signs of potentially more serious anxiety, experts
say.
"It's one of the unattended,
kind of hidden problems that kids face," says Patricia Saunders,
a New York City clinical psychologist. "There is a disturbing
number of children who are experiencing significant anxiety about
going back to school."
To help diminish that discomfort,
parents can point out the positive aspects of starting school:
It will be fun. You'll see old friends and meet new ones, the
American Academy of Pediatrics says.
If anxiety persists for more than
a few weeks, parents should talk to their children to try to find
out what's bothering them, and consider contacting school officials
and, possibly, a counselor, says Saunders, director of the Graham
Windham Manhattan Mental Health Center.
She says parents should watch for
changes in behavior, mood, appetite, sleep patterns and interests.
"Parents need to take it beyond face value. These are flags,
warning signs that something's going on with the kid," Saunders
says.
"It just means that something
is off, and parents really need to talk to them about it and let
kids know it's OK to feel badly and to ask them, 'Are you worrying
about something? Are you upset about something? Are you angry
about something? Are you having scary thoughts or bad dreams?"
Asking such questions can reveal
problems that might not come up otherwise.
Take victims of bullying, for instance.
"Kids tend to feel it's their fault," Saunders says.
"They're embarrassed about it. Kids of all ages are reluctant
to tell parents about it."
But when parents know, they can
give their children coping strategies, such as walking away, not
showing emotion and, if necessary, speaking with teachers.
A healthy start to the new year
also requires parents to take care of some basics right away.
Make sure your children's immunizations
are up to date, and tell the school nurse about any health problems
and whether medication must be taken during the school day. Also,
promptly fill out and return health or emergency contact forms
that the school sends home.
And remember that the backpack
your child carries can be dangerous. Experts recommend wide, padded
shoulder straps because narrow ones can cause pain and restrict
circulation. Children should always use both shoulder straps,
to guarantee proper balance and to avoid muscle strain and possibly
curvature of the spine.
A padded back can help protect
a child from sharp objects inside the backpack. Heavier items
should be packed closest to the center, and the loaded backpack
should never weigh more than 10 percent to 20 percent of the child's
bodyweight, the American Academy of Pediatrics says.
Also, take steps to make sure you
child gets to school safely: Children should wait for the school
bus to stop before approaching it, check for traffic before crossing
the street and avoid walking around a moving bus.
It's also important to remember
that what kids do before and after school affects their performance
in the classroom, says Dr. Barbara Frankowski, chairwoman of the
American Academy of Pediatrics' Committee on School Health.
She suggests that parents limit
television watching and Internet surfing -- so-called "screen
time."
"Unless they're legitimately
typing up their homework in front of the computer, I try to limit
[TV and computer] time to less than three hours a day. And that'll
be challenging for some people" says Frankowski, a Burlington,
Vt., pediatrician.
TV also exposes kids to violence
and ads for unhealthy food, contributes to obesity and takes away
from potential homework time.
To help develop good homework and
study habits, the American Academy of Pediatrics recommends you
create a quiet environment conducive to homework, keep the TV
out of the child's bedroom, and forbid TV viewing during homework
time. Also, be there to answer questions and help, but don't do
the homework.
Finally, make sure your child gets
enough sleep. The National Center on Sleep Disorders Research
recommends children aged 7 to 11 get at least nine hours each
night. To meet that goal, the center urges parents to establish
a regular bedtime; eliminate distractions such as a TV or computer
from your child's room; avoid giving children big meals near bedtime;
limit caffeinated beverages; and set aside quiet time for relaxation
before bedtime.
More information
For more on preparing children
for back to school, visit the American
Academy of Pediatrics or the National
PTA.
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