Become Fit, Healthy and Happy
Although you should share your interests with your child, it's
never a good idea to force your child into an activity just because
you once excelled in it.
In fact, many children may worry that they won't be able to measure
up to the success their parents once enjoyed playing a particular
sport. Your child needs to know that although you would love to
share your love of softball or basketball with her, it would be
equally acceptable if she would rather play golf or tennis, or
take up gymnastics or karate.
You should also keep your expectations realistic - most children
never make it to the city finals or become Olympic medalists no
matter how hard they try. The ultimate goal is to help and encourage
your child to become fit, healthy, and happy.
Parents should try to remain openminded about their child's chosen
sport. For example, it's possible that your child may enjoy a
sports activity that is not offered at her school or that is not
offered for girls. If your child wants to try football or ice
hockey, help her find a local league or talk to school officials
about starting up a new team. Boys may prefer figure skating or
ballet. Let your kids know that no matter which sport they choose,
they have your support.
You'll also need to be patient with your child if she has difficulty
choosing and sticking to an activity. It often takes several tries
before a child finds an activity with which she feels comfortable.
Even if your child never belongs to a sports team, there are
many other areas of her life where she can learn important skills
like teamwork, competition, and cooperation. Clubs, school and
volunteer activities, band or music lessons, acting or debating
groups, and many other activities teach children to work and get
along with others.
Fortunately, there are also many alternative ways to keep fit
and active other than organized sports.
Many children choose not to join teams, and prefer activities
that can be done alone or with friends. Suggested fitness alternatives
- horseback riding
- in-line skating
- martial arts
These activities help children build self-esteem, strength, coordination,
and general fitness.
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